The Remedy For MANY Hopeless Diseases and Failed Students!
I
am rather bold to suggest that there is a total remedy to hopeless diseases and
failed students!
But, I think there is! It is NOT a pill! There is no magic bullet! There are even so-called reputable vitamin companies offering products to "treat" the health problems. Click Here for one of the most bold pushers of magic pills -- they use "fibromyalgia" as the hook to get you in the door, and just sell everything under the sun. Many of these items may, in fact, be helpful, but if those who offer help do NOT recognize the "relationship connection" described below, then their failure rate will be high -- pushing the victims back into the clutches of psychiatric drugs. After all, psychiatric drugs ALWAYS work -- because they are pushing you toward a state of insensibility and vegetable. That is not hard to do.
One of the worst drugs is Ritalin -- supposedly used in schools to "help" students, this drug always makes a person a worse student. Other drugs do this also. See my article on this, here. I consider any parent who allows his child to receive Ritalin to be guilty of child abuse -- this is a wrong relationship (with the parent) that makes the child into a failed student.
In addition to drugs there is another huge factor in health and study.
The truth of the matter is that all poor study experience and diseases and illnesses, and every type of health problem has some sort of "relationship" problem that comes first. This wrong relationship could be right now, in present time, or it could have been many years ago. Most often it was actually the very teacher you trusted to teach you.
I receive messages that show wrong relationships all the time. Click here.
There is a relationship that causes you to be vulnerable to the invading bacteria. There are both drugs, suppressive teaching techniques (which are wrong relationships forced onto you) and wrong relationships outside the school environment.
There is a relationship that triggers the
health and study problem -- whether or not you were previously vulnerable.
When teachers are using teaching techniques which you don't recognize as
harmful, then you are suffering from a wrong relationship -- by having that
teacher.
There is a relationship that makes the study and health problem stay with you despite usual and good treatments. In other words, there are "relationship reasons" why some vitamin or treatment may not work for you while it works for many others. You cannot get effective private tutoring on study matters if you continue to return to a school using suppressive teaching technology.
This is a universal truth about health and life's difficulties -- you have the explanation on these "relationships" here!
What is a "relationship problem?"
First,
it is a connection between YOU and another person who is generally very close to
you. It could be with a group of others, but usually it is ONE person. This
person is NOT a stranger. In many study situations it is ONLY the teacher who
is this person. Other times it is a member of your family -- your spouse,
your parent, your child, your boss, your best friend, a neighbor. It could be
someone else, but whoever it is, this person is one who you know quite well and
who you probably see on a regular basis.
It is not unusual, however, that this wrong relationship existed many years ago -- then there will be someone in today's environment who reminds you of that person. You had an abusive spouse, 20 years ago, and got a divorce 18 years ago. The abusive spouse had a particular personality, or appearance, or whatever. He is long gone from your life, but there is SOMEONE in your life, right now, who reminds you of that earlier guy.
The first type, the abusive person is present in your life right now? This one includes many thousands of teachers who might claim that "they are doing their best." They are not! That one is usually easy to spot. If you don't find that one with ease, then it gets a bit harder, but you'll find someone or something that reminds you of the earlier wrong relationship.
There is a third situation -- beyond the scope of my advice here, where "everyone" reminds you of the bad guy. You can't spot that usually -- but need very gentle treatment.
When the person is in your present life, he is not a stranger! You have some agreements with this person -- based on a handshake, or formal contract, but most often unwritten and understood. You go to school because the law requires it. You feel you have no choice but to be within the grasp of some teacher or teachers.
You just don't spit on the living room floor of his house -- it is understood.
There are AGREEMENTS between you and this
person -- usually unspoken, but at some time you shared a com
mon
moral code on something that was important to both of you. Or society has
placed him in this position of authority over you. I have an entire web
site on a common sense moral code. This code really applies to all people,
whether they are aware of it or not. If someone close to you is violating one
or more parts of this moral code, YOU will be the one to get sick. If your
teacher is violating this moral code, you will not learn. This is serious
business. I urge you, if this might apply to you, to
CLICK HERE and spend some hours
browsing through that web site.
http://www.happinessonline.org
When that person, the one who is violating that moral code, is doing something directly to harm you, that is the most direct and easy to see. He is telling you that you are a "worthless person." This would be a very common type of action by him/her from which YOU get sick.
The invalidation you experience could have happened years ago. You were very "strong" and did not get sick or suffer study problems then. But, your immune system started going down. Later you did not want to read, or study new subjects. It could be years before some chance encounter with some bacteria -- and you are suddenly sick -- and you can die. The "wrong relationship" could have been some years ago.
You have a relationship with this person. That relationship now has something "wrong" with it, and that "wrongness" is actually the initial cause of your health or study problem. The wrongness means that there is less communication between you, or that the communication is now strained.
In most cases where it is the teacher who is harming you, you may not be aware of it. The teacher may feel that he or she is "doing the right thing."
In other words, if you DID NOT have this relationship (and had no other "wrong relationships") you would stay pretty healthy, would not fall prey to any wandering bacteria, and when you did get the sniffles, you would respond quickly to the usual treatments. One of the biggest improvements in education has come about through "home schooling" where the teachers are removed from the scene and a loving parent helps a child learn, but without the terrible teaching technology being used in most schools.
What is wrong about this relationship?
The other person is, first of all, doing something that violates YOUR sense of right and wrong. It is a matter of "morals." If you do not know that the teacher is teaching wrongly, then you are way down in the ditch -- reading more on this web site may awaken you.
Your granddaughter is away in college. At first you saw her every weekend. She is the darling of your eye! You and she were very close. Gradually you realize that college is "changing her!" Finally you awake one morning realizing that you cannot hide this change from yourself any longer -- your granddaughter is on drugs and having sex with many different men! (Use of drugs and alcohol by a loved one are very common causes of these "wrong relationships." Click HERE for that moral code web site.)
This is a "triggering" realization. If you didn't know anything about it, it probably would not affect you. But, you begin to suspect. She doesn't visit as often as she had previously. She casually mentions some of this new behavior (testing your acceptance), notes your raised eyebrow, and says no more about it. She makes little critical remarks about your home, and eventually even about you! She'll start these critical remarks when talking with others -- she may never tell you these things to your face. She is making those critical remarks because she really wants to justify not seeing you -- for fear that you will discover more of what she is doing. She knows it is wrong, and she doesn't want you to know. She may have even convinced herself that her behavior is NOT wrong, but is OK! But, even so she knows that YOU would disapprove. You find out, just a suspicion of something. You might even ask her! That causes more withdrawal on her part, and YOU GET SICK!
You get sick because SHE is violating your moral code! It is NOT your violation of any code, but hers. You are likely, first, to just become unhappy, but that turns into a health problem.
Perhaps
you have an abusive spouse! That will sure make you ill! You'll be unhappy
first, perhaps depressed and get the psychiatric drug. But, it may move forward
into a very real disease or health problem.
You do well in the second grade because your teacher, there, does NOT use the techniques recommended by the educational psychologist. You move into the third grade with a young new teacher who has bought into the educational psychologist junk he or she learned in "teaching school."
Cancer, in fact, is very often an indication that there is a terribly wrong relationship between a husband and wife! Usually the type of wrong relationship is that one of them (or both) is cheating on the other! Such a sexual transgression in marriage cannot be kept secret easily. It leads to the one being cheated on getting sick. Often it would be "depression" (naturally) and the quick remedy is a psychiatric drug. The obviously correct remedy is to handle the cheating spouse or disengage from him or her. The disengagement is often not easy, often not even possible, so you go on living with a terrible relationship and you develop one or more debilitating health problems. Sexual transgressions in a marriage often lead, eventually, to cancer in one or both.
You are an accountant by training. You are young. You go to work for Enron. For many years you have no idea of the accounting scandals that will, one day, dive your company into bankruptcy. One day you see something "wrong." At first you think it is just a mistake. You comment to someone -- they agree it must be a mistake.
You go about your work. You do well, you get promoted.
You see some more "mistakes" but now they look different. They look somehow deliberate!
You still decide that some senior person must understand these things better than you do, and they are "OK!" After all, they earn the big bucks, and they must have a better understanding! Not so??
One day you realize that there is really something wrong. At that moment, and perhaps even earlier, your company, or some of your fellow accountants, has deviated from standard accounting practice. The accounting standards that you learned in college? Yes! They don't seem to apply "here." Well, there must be some explanation? It would be too dramatic to say that the situation involves some moral corruption! No! Not yet!
The Enron and many other corporate scandals are covered in detail in that moral code web site -=- CLICK HERE.
But, within a few more weeks or months of this time, you may well become sick. You won't have any clue as to why you are sick, but you are. You recover.
You continue to see these accounting irregularities. People even ask you about these things and you decide that you had better not talk about them??
You get sicker.
Your company has violated YOUR moral code. When you got hired you got a "lecture" by the guy who said, "Oh yes! We follow standard accounting rules here!" You get sick. They broke the rules.
That's the rule!
You contributed to the death of ethics and morality in your area? You are now violating the moral code and agreement that you, and your company have with your stock holders. They find out about this, then get sick.
You get sick.
And, so it goes.
Has something like this happened to you??
It may take several years for the disease to manifest -- after the wrong behavior has been noticed. Study problems are usually much quicker to show up -- because the suppressive person is there in front of you every day.
The "wrong relationship" is vital to understand -- it is universal in application to the understanding of health and study problems.
It would not be unusual for you to refuse to see it when it is right in front of your face! However, the evil of harmful teaching technology is so wide-spread, and so little detected that it IS in front of your face but you often do not see it.
Happy
families are healthy families. If you see a sick baby, you know the parents are
fighting! They are breaking society's moral code that you should raise children
in a loving and happy home!
I have found this to be SO true, and so vital, that I have an entire web site devoted to helping people spot the type of behavior which the "other person" is engaging in -- the behavior that makes YOU sick. Visit www.happinessonline.org and see what that is all about.
Come visit me on that web site!
